Whether its the food the dancing or the romance, there is no doubt that everyone loves to be a guest at a wedding. Yet, there are a few common predicaments that one could find themselves in when being asked to attend a wedding ceremony. Here are 3 of the most common wedding problems and solutions you may deal with at your next wedding event.
- Problem: “You got invited to a wedding but you’re not sure if you’re allowed to bring a guest”
Solution: Look to your wedding invitation to determine how many ( if any ) guests you are allowed to bring. If the invitation was sent to your address and it clearly does not say “plus one” or “and guest”, that’s a good sign that you shouldn’t bring anyone with you to the event.
Proper wedding invitation etiquette states that the bride and groom should send individual invitations to couples not living at the same address. So be sure to ask whomever you’re date would be if they’ve received their own invite. If they haven’t, then plan on going to the ceremony alone. In all likelihood the newlyweds will seat you with other people you know to save you from any awkwardness.
The biggest issue with bringing uninvited guests to a wedding is that the bride and groom’s wedding planning is usually based on a set number of guests. If you do decide to bring someone with you despite what your invite dictates, just be sure to give the couple as much advance notice.
- Problem: “You plan on getting the couple a gift, but you have no idea where they are registered.”
Solution: Our first instinct in answering any of our wedding questions is to go straight to the bride or groom. However, if you don’t know where the couple is registered going straight to the source may not be the best solution. Ironically enough, it’s considered bad etiquette for the couple to announce where they’re registered. Try asking the couples’ family or members of the wedding party. The people closest to the bride and groom should be able to give you all the information you need.
- Problem: “You get invited to two weddings, both set for the same night!”
Solution: This can be a sticky situation that requires some tough decisions. Depending how well you know both of the wedding couples, you may be able to get away with attending the ceremony for one and the reception for the other. However, this is only recommended if you know the brides and grooms personally, because although attending just a wedding ceremony is OK, attending just a wedding reception is considered tacky (you could look like you’re only there for the free food and drinks).
You’re safest bet is to confront each couple with the truth. Let them know your situation as soon as you can and whatever plan you decide on. Regardless of how you want to split your night, be sure to send gifts to both wedding couples.
Planning a simple wedding is now easier with this and other advice written by Ellanor Redfern. Find more FREE wedding planning information on ForYourGuests.com!
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